I've been with my husband for 9 years now, we have had our rough patches, stuck with it through the good and the bad and the hideous. We do have a child together and with that came major adjustments in the relationship. It's not perfect; but that's the good thing about my experience and the advice I can offer; we have money issues, household responsibility issues, conflict in parenting styles, my husband has health issues, we're a one income household, and I have dealt with emotional neglect, and infidelity as well. When you want advice on marriage its usually because something went wrong, and you would want the person giving you advice to know your struggle right? Well, trust me; I've been there and done that and have gotten us through it; I can help you too.